theADHD Desk

Rejection Sensitivity

Criticism, a correction, or feeling left out can hit instantly and hard — like physical pain, way out of proportion. Why this is emotional dysregulation aimed at one trigger (not a separate diagnosis), and what to do when it hits: disengage instead of analyse, and be kind rather than corrective. The hurt can be real — the size and how long it grips you is the ADHD part.

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Rejection Sensitivity: printable ADHD action card for rejection — the mechanism in plain language (page 1 of 2).Rejection Sensitivity: printable ADHD action card for rejection — the step-by-step routine (page 2 of 2).

Not medical advice

A practical, plain-language reference. It doesn't replace assessment or treatment from a clinician who knows the individual.